I'd heard your allusions to this event; you referred to it recently when we were praying over our territory at Our Saviour's ;-) It is good to hear the whole story. And I agree with Russ. Sometimes, you muster the courage to punch the bad guy in the face so that you can, maybe, move toward reconcilation later. Like Luke did with Darth. Sometimes you lie down to block his road, and that's where your real power comes from. Like MLK did w/the racist whites. But always, it takes both sides to reconcile. It seems there is no strength in mere avoidance: "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer." --Sun Tzu
And besides Sun Tzu, the old Kenny Rogers song "Coward of the County" just popped into my head. I've been remembering my elementary school days riding the bus, w/the country music station playing that song. Sometimes my musical memory sure is interesting to me...
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Everyone considered him the coward of the county.
He'd never stood one single time to prove the county wrong.
His mama named him Tommy, the folks just called him yellow,
But something always told me they were reading Tommy wrong.
He was only ten years old when his daddy died in prison.
I looked after Tommy 'cause he was my brother's son.
I still recall the final words my brother said to Tommy:
"Son, my life is over, but yours is just begun.
Promise me, son, not to do the things I've done.
Walk away from trouble if you can.
It won't mean you're weak if you turn the other cheek.
I hope you're old enough to understand:
Son, you don't have to fight to be a man."
There's someone for everyone and Tommy's love was Becky.
In her arms he didn't have to prove he was a man.
One day while he was working the Gatlin boys came calling.
They took turns at Becky.... There was three of them!
Tommy opened up the door and saw his Becky crying.
The torn dress, the shattered look was more than he could stand.
He reached above the fireplace and took down his daddy's picture.
As his tears fell on his daddy's face, he heard these words again:
"Promise me, son, not to do the things I've done.
Walk away from trouble if you can.
It won't mean you're weak if you turn the other cheek.
I hope you're old enough to understand:
Son, you don't have to fight to be a man."
The Gatlin boys just laughed at him when he walked into the barroom.
One of them got up and met him halfway 'cross the floor.
When Tommy turned around they said, "Hey look! old yellow's leaving."
But you coulda heard a pin drop when Tommy stopped and blocked the door.
Twenty years of crawling was bottled up inside him.
He wasn't holding nothing back; he let them have it all.
When Tommy left the barroom not a Gatlin boy was standing.
He said, "This one's for Becky," as he watched the last one fall.
And I heard him say,
"I promised you, Dad, not to do the things you done.
I walk away from trouble when I can.
Now please don't think I'm weak, I didn't turn the other cheek,
and Papa, I sure hope you understand:
Sometimes you gotta fight when you're a man."
Everyone considered him the coward of the county.
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So what do y'all think about what Tommy did? Hmmm. Myself, I would have preferred that he find a whipsmart lawyer to put them all into prison for the rest of their miserable lives... And then cry with his Becky for a really long time. The movie "Rob Roy" dealt with the harrowing issue of the desire for vengeance, too... What would Dan Allender say about all this? For that matter, what WOULD Jesus do? Would he bring out the whip and turn the tables on the Gatlin boys? |