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From: clrclady Date: Sat Feb 7 10:46:07 MST 2004
Subject: Singleness Response
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I am hesitant to respond to this singleness discussion because I don't know if I know how to be single well. However, I am learning a great deal. I believe singleness is about being alive with all the longings and desires of your heart awake while learning to have them filled by God and the community around you. Being dead to the longings and desires, is not being single well. I think there is much to learn while being single. Although, God will probably teach me much if it is in His plan to marry, He has done amazing things to develop me in my singleness. There is another type of oneness that the Bible talks about other than the oneness of marriage. It is the oneness of the body. Ephesians 4 talks about the fact that we are one body and have one spirit as believes. To be honest, open, trusting, valnerable and weak with each other to the point that I can say that I am one with them can be a scary, challenging, growth experience in and of itself. I think this is what the call is to everyone, whether married or single. I believe the need is to live life, alive and to its fullness while being single without the constent thought that life does not start until one is married. Life is now!!! Life begins where each person is and God is there molding and teaching along the way. However, if you hide your head in the ground like a good ostrich and feel nothing and share nothing, you are not living well whether single or married. I know this from experience on the single part. I have lived with my head tucked safely away for years, trying not to feel or acknowledge anything. It is truly death, although it feels much safer then life most of the time. So, the conclusion to all this rambling. To live well single is to cherish the relationships that you have around you and to pour into other's lives as they pour into you, feeling the fear, the pain, and the joy that it all brings. |
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