This article http://www.beliefnet.com/story/34/story_3474_1.html?WT.mc_id=NL44
reminds me of all the times I've tried to give the right answer to my son, instead of letting him wonder. Even today, when he is 19 years old, I often try to think too hard instead of waiting for him to tell me his thoughts. The best answer is often not cerebral at all.
It also reminds me of that first God Play meeting at the Cromer's, when Aaron's friend demonstrated how we motivate our children to be creative, to exercise their wonderful, natural God-given creativity. Truly smart parents don't pretend to know the answer to a question about a Bible story, or anything else, that really no one but God knows.
Here's a couple quotes from the article to pique your interest.
"Our job is not just to talk to children about God, but to encourage them to relate to the God they already know."
Regarding the divine presence, "It may have felt more like spontaneous joy or a sense of being loved and protected. But it is within us, in our very being, closer than any creed."
I rejoice with you, MaryKay, and with all the parents of young, old, adopted and foster Villagers, that God forgives us for all the mistakes we've made in parenting. In His grace, He even goes beyond forgiveness and uses the error of our ways for His glory. |